Marriage Coach and Inspirational Speaker Nicolette Hines responds to a compelling urge to bring value back to the vows of many. In this book she elaborately discusses the reality of couples moonlighting outside of their marriages to find comfort, peace, sex, love and resolve that only their spouses should satisfy. The book is a reminder that marriage is not the fairytale of perfect people, fake smiles in public and tears in private. It’s much more than a legal sex buffet. It’s mutual work and desire, hardship, forgiveness, growth and commitment. We live in an era where side chics are considered the new normal.
This phenomenon removes everything sacred about marriage and kills the Value in the Vow. This book is designed to restore the integrity of the vow, and to spark conversation of how wives can fortify their relationships once and for all.
As a wife of 20 plus years with a Master’s Degree in Applied Psychology with special concentration in Marriage and Family Counseling, Nicolette reveals in-depth wisdom gained from her personal experiences with the challenges many marriages face daily. Not only does she share from the perspective of a wife who desires to be the only one to satisfy her man, but she illuminates ways that husbands can make it much easier. Engaged, dating, married, grown apart, cheating, or helplessly in love; this book is for you.
Love is a complicated word that often reveals its truth after adversity. Many abandon their vows before love clears its throat to speak. We then continue our search for perfection and sometimes it’s the person who ruffles our feathers in an imperfect way, who truly holds the key to our heart.
Get ready to laugh, relate and revive the virtues you thought were dead in your marriage. Ladies get ready to rediscover your super powers. Husbands prepare to rekindle, grab your Boo, set the mood and enjoy.
By the way, No Side Pieces Allowed!
Excerpt:
Some women were taught that keeping a man satisfied is all about making sure he always have a full stomach, a big smile and empty scrotums.
It was just a matter of time before leaving his clothes on the floor became the reason we wanted to throw our whole husband away. When we recite our VOWS we don’t usually take into consideration that there’s going to be something we despise about the person. We don’t even think for a second that we’re going to have to love even the part of them that we despise.
Nicolette Hines is an Author, Speaker, Poet, Playwright and Marriage Coach. She has a Master’s Degree in Applied Psychology with special concentration in Marriage and Family Counseling. Nicolette is married to Pastor Patrick Hines for 21 years and they have five children. Nicolette came from a background of hardship in which she managed to make her own rules and take authority over her life. She is the founder of the Woman Up Movement which is an organization designed to rebuild women who has been broken by traumatic experiences in life. Nicolette is the CEO of Boss Up Enterprise a collaboration of all of her brands. Through every challenge she’s managed to Woman Up and pursue her victory. She’s resilient and unbreakable.
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